Monday, November 9, 2009

9 November 2009, new blog in blogspot.

This is the 1st blogspot account for me, it has been a long time I did not post a blog, really don't know what to write but there is something I want to share with you guys. I think what happen in Kampar last weekend many people also know, there are 3 students from Utar drowned at Batu Berangkai waterfall, one of them, James is my friend, eventhough I am not that close with him but when I heard that he was drowned, my mind just blank for few minutes because I just met him 2 days before, that time he still play with me and clamp sis, really shocked it's just too sudden for us, someone that talk with you 2 days before can't talk with you anymore.

After this incidence, I've realised one thing, life is fragile, we really don't know what we'll be facing tomorrow, what we can do is try to care about what we have now, spend more time with family and friends, try to avoid argument, don't stress up so easily, I still remember a HK drama Mr Cai Gou said life got how many ten years, do not waste it with regrets, sometimes I really don't understand why still have so many people out there don't know how to care about what they have, end up with gossiping and arguing, how come they got so much energy to treat others like that, really don't know what they think.

Some of my friend they always worried about offending someone else or their gossips and keep on blaming themselves or make themselves stressed up, actually what people want to says about us we can't stop them, as long as we have done our very best to do that stuff, why do we need to care about someone that don't know how to appreciate our efforts plus keep on back stabbing us, I know is very suffer when you've done your very best then they did not do anything plus keep on blaming on you and back stab you, what can we do? If you end up with stress then you've dropped into their trap, when we face this kind of people do not stress up just pretend as nothing happen, wear a mask must be more fake than them, this is how you can survive in this realistic world.

Lastly, to those who I've offended, sorry, maybe last time my EQ was low and make you all fed up, start from now on, no more argue with you all, because I don't want my life end up with argument, remember treat those who care you better, we really don't know what will happen the next second, ciaoz!